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The Coast Road

These fragments I have shored against my ruins. – – The Waste Land

The full moon is sliding down the dark sky over Catalina Island off on the western horizon. Slipping in and out of sheets of haze it casts a long shadow of a blue on darker blue pool of moonlight out from the silhouette of Catalina’s steep hills and across the open slate water to the California shore. Below me to the north, the winding lights of the village converge on the long dark strand of the Pacific Coast Highway arcing up and over the hills of Laguna Beach and on into the towns that string out towards LA, growing ever denser along that route until the highway fades into the bleak streets of the metropolis.

Driving that way towards central California, you’d be tempted to give up the coast highway, old Route 1, for a quick transit through LA, up over the Grapevine to slide down to the featureless plain of the central valley and the torpor of Highway 5. But if you stay on the Pacific Coast Highway as it disappears into the scuzzy sprawl of LA, you’ll find, in time, you took the better route.

To find the deeper rewards of the Pacific Coast Highway you have to crawl through endless renditions of our modern malaise laid out as the strip malls and neighborhoods of low degree in that part of the passage — fried food joints, store-front fortune tellers, quick shot dive bars, bad to mediocre restaurants, drive-through churches — but in the end, the Highway emerges in Santa Monica, gives way to the long beaches and headlands of Malibu, sweeps out of the city completely and leads to highlands and sea cliffs and finally to the Sur. You’d never get there if you take the fast and easy freeway to the east. It is true that you might get to someplace else, some other clot of cities, quicker. But then you’d just find yourself in another variation of Los Angeles. It would be as if you never left, since, in truth, you had not.

All of which is a roundabout way of saying that if you take your time with a journey, you have a much better chance of finding that the journey itself is the destination; that if you can accept you need to pass through the uglier parts of the landscape to get to the highlands and the vistas, they will in time appear again. But if you try to take the fast route, the route that leads around all the clutter, detritus, and smash of our disposable culture, you will, in the end, have seen little and understood less, you will be traveling on the bland Highway 5s that always run into the dark end of nowhere special.

“We live in a time where timeless wisdom has become fading whispers heard through glass. Worse still, we will not hear those whispers.”

Our recent ability to achieve speed in transit has infected us with the idea that all transitions in life need to be done at speed. Yet we complain there are too many wrecks and breakdowns on these highways of our lives. We complain that there is always too much traffic around us and all we can do is hunker down in our own steel shell and drive with one foot on the gas and the other on the brake, boxed in by a flying wedge of Semis hauling things we don’t need to houses that are never quite homes and tailgated by our own impatience only to discover our “destination” is not really where we need to be at all.

We think that the “road rage” we see around us as millions daily take to these expressways — made so that goods can flow into our stores and workers get into their corporations “on time”– is something fairly new on the scene. It isn’t.

“Road Rage” is the expression of our real rage; our compulsive demons telling all of us to get some where, to be some one, to have some thing. In time that where will become old and a new where will beckon. In time becoming a new some one will not be the one we then need to become. In time having some thing will only compel us to have some other thing. There’s no “being” to it, and less “becoming” about it. There is only the having to have and the getting to be spending.

And when we are done with years of it, we will look back and know that it was all a waste of life; that everything worth having was on the side roads that took a lot more time to travel and forced you — with their sharp curves and high cliffs — to slow down and take it all very carefully. Wise men and women have told us all of this for eons, but with our power windows cranked up, our air-conditioning on high, and our radios tuned to the latest news or the new hit of meaningless trash music, we cannot hear them. We live in a time where timeless wisdom has become fading whispers heard through glass.

Worse still, we will not hear those whispers. If their voices were to suddenly intrude on our world of piped-in music to everywhere, car, house, restaurant, and bar — to intrude upon the beep and rattle and hum of our oh-so-networked offices; to speak over the custom ringtones we’ve programmed into our cell phones — we would, without thinking, and as a programmed response, hit “SCAN” and pass on to the next frequency where we would be assured of receiving confirming, affirming messages that we are doing all right and everything is perfect and finally on track. All we have to do to keep up is move just a little faster on the freeway, just speed it up, just close the gap. Life in the fast lane.

I know the fast lane well. I wasted many years on it.

The fast lane can be long or short, but in the end, I found it only leads to a parking lot where, if you are very good and very diligent you will get a personal parking place with your name stenciled over the name that was there before. That’s one end to the road. The other is where, if you plan wisely, you’ll have a McMansion that will enable you to park three cars inside it and close the door with the touch of a button. I know many people travel this road willingly and many others travel it because they believe there is just no other way. They’ve all sped up so much that they missed the small sign on the right. The one with the small flower on it that said “Scenic Route.”

The turns of my life in the last year have given me a tour of the Scenic Route that took me to places so slow and so beautiful I could not believe they existed on Earth, and to places that might seem beautiful to some, but that I would rather not have ever seen at all. As noted above, the slow road does not always wind along trackless beaches and pristine forests, but sooner or later passes through the strip malls and junkyards of our lives; places, where you want to speed up but discover your speed, is limited and checked by radar or drone scanned from the air.

I’ve driven up along Pacific Coast Highway One to Big Sur. This side road on the edge of the continent was where so many of the deeper and more lasting moments of my life either began or came to fruition; emerged from the smoke as if I always had to have part of those moments happen there to be real and be verified as important. I came here to the Baez School for Non-Violence. I came here to soak in the baths at Esalen. I came here to explore the mystery molecule of LSD before it was forbidden. It was in a cabin here that I fell in love with my first wife and at a picnic table in the redwoods decades later when I learned my second wife was gone for good. And the woman whose love has lasted and I had lunch at Nepenthe the last time I drove the coast road to the Sur. My life has risen and fallen and risen again from those coastal cliffs and the road that winds so tenuously along the edge of them. The grand abiding indifference of the Sur’s mist-shrouded cliffs to both the road and the human lives that scuttle slowly along it never ceases to remind me of what small brief sparks we are.

South of Nepenthe in the Sur there are side roads through old redwood forests to long beaches smoothed and polished by the slow Pacific swell.  I always take the time to amble down these roads to the beaches where time does not interfere.

As is my way, I stroll those beaches looking for shells, for Anne Lindburghs’ ‘Gift from the Sea.’

Although the sand is fine and clean all along this beach, the relentless waves seem to shatter every shell to fragments as they bring them ashore. Shattered shells and lumps of brain coral are what you see step after step. But still, I look down as I walk along because I see the world as a metaphor and am always alert for anomalies.

Early in the morning, walking the beach I glance down, and sitting among nothing but shattered, bleached white fragments of shells, I saw one, and only one, perfectly polished and gleaming cowry. About two inches long and an inch high. One perfect thing is given by the sea amongst vast strands of smashed things. I picked it up and placed it in my pocket. Then I turned and left the beach and the islands.

I’m back at my home where the first tanged scent of winter can be sensed in the breeze. While I wrote this, the birds woke up and the sun rose high. It’s getting to be mid-morning and I have to go to the post office now. There’s a bunch of small errands I’ve been putting off while I’ve been moving fast trying to learn to move slow.

The shell? It was left behind in the coffee shop somewhere along the coast road and thought to be lost. But I’ve learned that it has been found and I’ve been promised it will be returned. I hope that happens. I hate to see the beautiful, rare, and perfect things of our lives found, rescued from the fragments, and then lost again forever.

All that you touch
All that you see
All that you taste
All you feel.
All that you love
All that you hate
All you distrust
All you save.
All that you give
All that you deal
All that you buy,
beg, borrow or steal.
All you create
All you destroy
All that you do
All that you say.
All that you eat
And everyone you meet
All that you slight
And everyone you fight.
All that is now
All that is gone
All that’s to come
and everything under the sun is in tune
but the sun is eclipsed by the moon.


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  • NickSMpls October 4, 2019, 5:39 AM

    Beautiful, finely honed language. The best writing on the web, bar none.

  • Terry October 4, 2019, 7:04 AM

    That is a really great reminder of a feature that would actually return me to California for a couple of days. That being a drive on Highway 1 from Ventura to the Oregon border in the north. But I would really enjoy this trip with my wife Susie and her ’73 Porsche 911 S. We drove various segments of The Coast Highway (1) many, many times. Always in a Porsche, beginning in the early sixties in a 1960, 356 S90 coupe.

    Get in, sit down and hang on. We are going for a ride! Wheeeeeeee!!!

  • jwm October 4, 2019, 8:01 AM

    So many years.
    I’ve done PCH several times in cars, and on the motorcycle. It’s been a long time. It always made me think of Cannery Row, the part where Doc makes the drive from Monterrey to La Jolla in the thirties. Closest I came to that was in 1976 when I drove my VW all the way to Portland. Picked up an Aussie hitchhiker just south of ‘Frisco on the trip home. Nice guy, I recall, and having a passenger was just what it took to slow the trip and keep it from becoming just another marathon drive. Stopping just for the sake of stopping. Stumbled on a secret surf spot in the Sur, but the swell was small, and the hike down was formidable, so we just got high, and rolled on.


  • Auntie Analogue October 4, 2019, 8:16 AM

    Highway 1. Big Sur. Drove them many, many times, day and night, ragtop-down in my Fiat. Camped overnight, illegally, in forest just inshore at Pfeiffer Beach whose purple sands in sunlight mystify. Nighttime jaunts to clifftop turnouts, to stand awestruck beneath the bright band of the Milky Way, with the sea beneath tugging, stretching my imagination all the way to the Japans.

    In dark of night stood on Carmel Beach as looming crests of surf climaxed thunderously onto its sand-curve and made it tremble underfoot like Jell-O, as the enormous flame orange moonset cold-boiled into the violet horizon.

    Then, in another life-episode, at sunrise that went scarcely noticed, crush into the Big Tollbooth Squeeze at the north end of the New Jersey Turnpike to then aggress amid thronging tight traffic into and through the Lincoln Tunnel. Manhattan days spent breathlessly in hermetic headquarters of a MegaGlobal Corporation; lunchtime taxicab hustle to one or another hoity-toity restaurant on some other corporation’s expense account for parsimonious portions, snobbish teases of designer grub, and hated every minute of its hierarchy of status and its jealously and, to my horror, most often whimsically wielded hidden power over the little people to whose warren, at day’s end, I returned for the ritual cleansing of a long hot shower.

    Today, in the waning time, in the Midwest, for the occasional short cruise to the dappled shade of a slope top copse to overlook the Mississippi. “River going to take me sing me sweet and sleepy….”

  • ghostsniper October 4, 2019, 10:13 AM

    I did a week on PCH one night.

    I crashed out in the back of the toppered truck amidst my backpack, rusty lawn chairs, and a bunch of other stuff. When the driver woke me up we were on PCH just north of Crescent City. Being on the road is rough, it’ll wear you out. That’s why I was crashed. I got on board a couple hours earlier south of Portland and in the blink of an eye I was on the outskirts of Crescent City, Ca., heading south on foot. Just me and my old army alice rucksack.

    I walked the whole length of Crescent and coming out of the south end the last establishment was a nasty little trasher bar with a lot of racket spilling out the front door into the warm June night. A couple people were standing around and the sweet smell of sinse was in the air. I was jonesin’ bad (been about a week since I toked – the longest I went without in 10 years) but I was averse to approaching strangers so I kept walking. Another quarter mile and I dropped my ruck and just stood there. Waiting. A couple cars went past but no rides. bummer

    So I stood there, and looked at the stars, and listened to the surf in the distance. The noise got loud at the bar down the road and a few doods stumbled out laughing and cussing and climbed into an old truck. A couple in the cab and a few more in the back and they were headed my way. They came roaring past and someone threw a beer bottle at me, missing me. The truck kept going but then did a donut and came back. I reached into the ruck and pulled out my 357 and held it behind my back. Shit was gettin’ real. The truck was almost on me and I stepped back further from the road. It flew past and kept going. I exhaled. Put the gun away, picked up the ruck and started walking.

    I came upon a large unlit sign in the darkness. “Del Norte Redwood Forest”. Never heard of it. It was a 2 lane country type road, narrow, desolate. The ocean was on my right, as I headed south, and the forest was on my left. Next thing I know I am engulfed in giants. Trees bigger’n any I had ever seen. Bigger then anything that had ever lived. I climbed the embankment and walked into the forest. I walked up to a tree, with flashlight in hand, and saw the thing up close. I was now 100 times smaller than I normally was, in comparison to the tree. The bark grooves were big enough I could put my whole arm in it. Usually bark grooves on say, mature oak, are about an inch deep. Unbelievable. I got back on the road and kept walking. Looking at the trees on the left, and down over the cliffs on the right to the crashing ocean hundreds of feet below under a massive ceiling of stars and not a sound in the world. Me and stark nature. No one else existed, I owned the world! That’s probably the realest I have ever been.

  • Sam L. October 4, 2019, 10:22 AM

    Gerard, you tell a hell of a great story!

  • Bill October 4, 2019, 12:24 PM

    I date myself in commenting thus, but many here are of an age to remember the artist and reference. Harry Chapin had a song titled “Greyhound,” in which the last line is “It’s got to be the going not the getting there that’s good.” Oh that such a lesson was easily learned or taught! Near death a few times, and recently surviving cancer, helped reinforce the importance of that lesson… Thank you for the post reinforcing it yet again.

  • James ONeil October 4, 2019, 12:43 PM

    Good on yer, Gerard!

    I made two road trips, from here in North Pole, to the coast this summer, one to Seward, Resurrection Bay, on the Gulf of Alaska and one to Valdez and Prince William Sound.

    Both are delightful runs.

  • Terry October 5, 2019, 6:47 PM

    Big trees near where I was born:

    There are some even bigger trees nearby this grove that few people realize are even there.

  • J.J. October 6, 2019, 9:08 PM

    In 1956-58 I was in an A-1 squadron at NAS North Island. There was an overhaul and repair station for A-1s at NAS Alameda in the Bay Area. About six times in those two years I was assigned to ferry an A-1 to Alameda and bring back a newly overhauled bird. Ferry flights had to be done in VFR (visual flight rules), so the weather was always good for those flights. I would just follow the coast from Point Loma all the way to the Golden Gate, past the Bay Bridge, and Alameda. Was supposed to fly at 1000 feet or higher, but once north of Vandenberg AFB, I’d drop down to a low altitude and just tool along and enjoy the scenery. Could not do that in today’s positive control air traffic system.

    I’d driven the highway a couple of times, but these flights were truly a pleasure. I was a lowly Ensign and junior in the squadron, which was why I was assigned these flights. It normally took two days. One day to Alameda and a test flight of the new A-1, then back to North Island the next day. The more senior pilots didn’t want to be away from home, as we did six to eight month WesPac deployments and that was enough being away from home for them.

    Anyway, whenever I read about the PCH, it brings to mind those wonderful scenic flights. I give thanks for having been in the right place at the right time.

  • ghostsniper February 22, 2021, 4:02 AM

    The intersection in Lomita, Western Av and PCH, heading north, came off the redlight on a brand new Suzuki 1000 and accidently did a wheelie across the whole intersection at about 6:30 am. Late June 1980 and I was working at Martin-Marietta on Western in Torrance.

    I only lived there about 6 months but almost all of it was enjoyable and memorable, something going on all the time. It was a great place to be for single folks, at that time. I’ve thought about going back many times but never have. I’ve been every where and rarely go back to any of it. Always looking for something new.

  • Rob De Witt February 22, 2021, 6:58 AM

    Dunno how I missed this the first time, but it was worth waiting for…

    I’ve got my own tales of the coast road, traveling down from Oakland to Felton 40 years ago for weekends gigs at Roaring Camp with Bluegrass One. It became a habit to pull off the road at Davenport and go stand on the bluffs staring at Japan. Once when I got up there I saw a string of pelicans, miles long, headed North against my tide. And then back in the old Dodge Dart headed South to be a child again and sing those old songs, leaving Systems Analysis behind for another few precious hours.

    But nothing I could ever write could equal the gentle perfection of “tailgated by our own impatience.”


  • Dirk February 22, 2021, 8:04 AM

    Memories of my youth. The Edsel!. Never forgetting the clear plastic seat covers, on highway one, Ashame really. Once a stunning work of God, now an engineers nightmare.

    Village Idiot.

  • julie February 22, 2021, 10:54 AM

    I still hope, some day, to take that drive.

    In the meantime, I’ll just have to envision with the help of descriptions such as this.

  • Will February 22, 2021, 1:14 PM

    We’ve driven the I-5 back and forth from SF to LA so many times we know all the exit stops, restaurants there, etc. It is not a pretty nor enjoybable drive as you have noted. However one time a few years back I suggested we take the PCH and stop along they way whenever we wanted to, for no reason. Clam chowder lunch on the pier in Monterrey, followed by a nice walk through the historic village of Solvang a few hours later and then a leisurely oceanside dinner in Ventura before driving the last 90 minutes to Orange County. Took nearly 12 hours to drive what was normally a six hour trip but the stops and scenery were worth it. I hope to do it again someday.

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  • steveaz July 23, 2022, 3:30 PM

    Henry Miller is grinning right now.

    Thanks for this.

  • Terry July 23, 2022, 9:20 PM

    I’ve been sitting here in my favorite chair for an hour thinking about the wonderful times I enjoyed while traveling the Pacific Coast Highway way back in the sixties , seventies & eighties.

    I would love to do that drive one more time. Maybe start out near Ventura and take a four day or so slow cruise up to just north of Ft Bragg. My wife and I drove the PCH many times in her Porsche. Now it would be driven in a more sedate, slower paced old folks vehicle. We don’t live in Cali since 1995 and are 1000 miles away in a north easterly direction. But I will never forget the formerly great Golden State.