April 4, 2007

My Father

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The Interface
--for my father, Albert John Van der Leun

1.
The empty rituals and dusty opulence
of the nightmare's obvious ending dwindle,
and the sounds of departing automobiles
fade into the humm beyond the cul-de-sac.
Inside the house my mother sits quietly,
surrounded by the plates of finger food
that everybody brought and no one ate,
and wonders if she should begin to take
clothes from the closet, call the Goodwill.
Some blocks away, the Methodist minister hangs
his vestments on a peg, and goes to lunch.

Later, I drive the Skyway to the town named Paradise,
park the car at the canyon's rim, and sit awhile
in the hot silence of the afternoon looking out
at the far mountains where, in June, the winter lingers.
On the seat beside me, a well-taped cardboard cube
contains what remains of my father. I climb out
and, taking the cube under my arm, begin to climb
down the canyon's lava wall to the stream below.
The going is slow, but we get to the bottom by and by
and sitting on some moss, we rest awhile, the cube and I,
beside the snow-chilled stream.

The place we have come to is where the pines lean out
from the boulders at the edge of the stream,
where what the stream carries builds up in the backwater,
making in the mounds of matter an inventory of the year:
rusted tins slumped under the fallen sighs of weeds,
diminishing echoes of the blackbird's gliding wings,
laughs buoyed in the hollow belly of stunted trees,
gears, tires, the bones of birds, brilliant pebbles,
the rasping windwish of leaf fall crushed to dust,
the thunk of bone on bark, the thud of earth on wood,
the silence of soft ash sifting onto long chill waters.

And in such silence, he fades forever.

2.
The stream, its waters revolving round
through river, ocean, clouds, and rain,
bears away the hands and eyes,
but still the memory remains,
answering in pantomime the questions never asked:

Are these reflections but the world without,
carried on but never borne, onward, westward,
towards sunlight glazed on sea's thigh?

Or are such frail forms shaped upon this water all
the things that are, and we, immersed above in air,
the forms that fade, mere mirrors of the stream?

Is this life all that is and, once lost,
the end of all that was, with nothing
left to be, with no pine wind to taste,
nor sun to dapple mind with dream?
Is all that is but ash dissolving,
our lives but rain in circles falling?

Or are we yet the center of such circles,
our fall the final fall of night,
because we are contained within
that single soul, that heart of stars,
that place where sun and water meet,
that golden hand whose wounded palm
(once we have shimmered into sunlight),
still remains held out forever,
forever open in the coldest light of day.

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"It is impossible to speak in such a way that you cannot be misunderstood." -- Karl Popper N.B.: Comments are moderated and may not appear immediately. Comments that exceed the obscenity or stupidity limits will be either edited or expunged.

Interface... the face is the exterior of the interior... the face is interred in the heart... "everything is a mystery of the face to face and the within."

Posted by: Gagdad Bob at June 18, 2006 5:33 PM

I puts some comments and links on my blog. You were blessed to have a father that could inspire such poetry at his passing.

Posted by: Bill at June 18, 2006 9:50 PM

Beautiful thoughts . . . gracefully stated. Thanks!

Posted by: Marcus Abundis at June 19, 2006 8:00 AM

Gerard, you are a theologian. I've always suspected it but now I know it.

Just beutiful - I'm going to work the ending verses into a sermon one day - Ecclesiastes asks the same kinds of questions.

Posted by: Donald Sensing at June 19, 2006 9:49 AM

There is something wonderfully final in the spilling of your father's ashes into a clear, mountain stream. My son rests, preserved, six feet beneath the ground in a central Indiana graveyard. We make a visit every month or two, but my grief is more when I am away from his grave. The stone and picture are not him, my memories are him. I think that is the way it must be for you and your father.

Posted by: bill at April 11, 2007 6:37 PM
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